What about when someone deliberately tries to get on your nerves? We get really affected by unkindness. Then comes anger. Confrontation builds up tension and fury. And what do we have? The desire to return unkindness for unkindness. In the face of a fight, we may also feel that kindness is hardly a priority. When you are being yelled at you may think that the weakest thing you could do is respond with kindness.
Sometimes when you respond with kindness you take the other person aback completely. After all, the response that we see time and again is to fight back, till things escalate dramatically. But to hold yourself back and not reply with anger is a huge sign of strength. You show that you possess a certain type of self-control that is both deliberate and purposeful. By acting in rage, the person who hurt you openly displays their inability to keep calm and collected. Do you want to look like a flustered, confused individual?
For remember that you show courtesy to others not because they are gentlemen, but because you are one. Why should our happiness and good mental health depend upon the other person? Why stress yourself and raise the tension, because of what the other person choose to do? At the end of the day, you will feel more satisfied and pleased with yourself if you hold back from rage.
I just love the Kill them with Kindness Quote mentioned above because it takes the focus off the other person, and onto ourselves — which is where we really need it sometimes. The main thought is, let people be rude, they will likely face the consequences at some point. When you treat people with kindness it can help to calm the whole situation down. Your soft and sympathetic words can do much to help them the angry person to stop freaking out and behave in a more civil manner.
On the other hand, if you act in fury, it will only ignite the fire and cause more anger. Simple quote. I Think it gets the point across quite clearly though. Victory is when you are both able to calm down and resolve the issue in peace, love and kindness.
Very well, Priscilla. Maggie, I hope you enjoy this exercise and take it to heart," he said with a hard voice. I smiled a genuine smile. Thank you. It doesn't kill you to be nice, kind, loving, caring and respectful. Try it! Kill them with kindness. There are people who Don't believe it! It's an old tactic of cruel people to kill kindness in the name of virtue. Atheism, I began to realize, rested on a less-than-satisfactory evidential basis. The arguments that had once seemed bold, decisive, and conclusive increasingly turned out to be circular, tentative, and uncertain.
I lived in an enclave in which our oldest had seen twenty-five years. His face was withered, and his fingers shook when he attempted the smallest tasks. Some whispered it would be a kindness to kill him, but they meant they didn't want to see their futures written in his skin.
Kill them with kindness and if that didn't work, use a shotgun - Author: Heidi Cullinan. I'm quite concerned that if I spend time in the office, someone will always find something for you to do. There's always a crisis that needs your urgent attention. The greatest thrill is not to kill but to let live. You can choose a ready guide in some celestial voice.
If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice. You can choose from phantom fears and kindness that can kill. I will choose a path thats clear. I will choose Freewill. I live by the code ' Kill them with kindness , blood everywhere;' for me, it's always about being the nicest kind of guy.
Don't let negative people drain your energy. Focus on your positive energy and kill them with kindness. Energy vampires are no match for your positive energy. Let us kill each other with love and kindness - not with hatred and guns. My fans are the best. I mean if there was a war, I think they'd definitely win just because they'd kill them with kindness.
The happiest people I know as a nation are the Burmese; their brightness and cheeriness are proverbial. Kindness to animals is one of their greatest 'weaknesses'; no Burmese will kill an animal, even if it is to put it out of pain. It was deeply a part of Lee's kindness and understanding that man's right to kill himself is inviolable, but sometimes a friend can make it unnecessary - Author: John Steinbeck.
I think my mum has the foulest mouth of anyone I've ever met.
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